I have been dating this guy for over 2-1/2 years now and we have recently purchased our first house together. 'R' has been very mean lately. He is constantly nagging at me about what I don't do around the house. This is not new we have lived together for about a year before this. He's constantly calling me lazy. Which I find to be untrue most nights he has dinner waiting for him and the house is immaculate, but it is what I don't do that he complains about. And lately more than ever he has been insulting me a lot and calling me names, getting mad at me over silly things, like if I have the door closed in the bedroom while having a friend over or thinking that my friends and I are always talking about him and laughing at him. He also has weird sexual tendencies: After getting mad at me for something dumb and calling me names, he will want to have sex, but when I say no, he will call me a name like a skank and just start going off on me. I think he has some sort of disorder and should maybe get some help but when I bring it up to him he thinks that I am being ridiculous. Please help.
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